These two words are some of the hardest actions to carry out. How many people do you know are truly themselves with the opposite sex around? I am not saying to be completely open and transparent but do not make yourself something you are not. Share real stories about yourself, not the things you think the lady wants to hear. Making yourself sound better than you really are never does any good. Because for some reason women can always figure it out and if they do not right off the bat, they will the more they get to know you.
Guys, remember that there will always be a guy out there that you think is "better" than you. But guess what, they are not "better" than you, they are just different than you. Every guy has their own set of talents and you need to stay within those talents when you are trying to impress the opposite sex. If they are not impressed and not interested, then they are truly not worth your time. Sometimes you really do have to impress the gal, but if she does not fall for the real you...then she is not worth it.
A little side note* Don't compare your **** size with other guys in front of the ladies, its not very gentleman like at all. When it is just a bunch of guys, flex your muscles and compare until you turn blue. Keep it within your male group.
So be yourself, don't flex your muscles around the gals, and remember to enjoy the time with the ladies.
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Hey good job man, I thought this was good, it really made me think about bragging, which i struggle with alot. So I was wondering what your thoughts were on flirting with the oppisite sex...the temptation that ensues, i guess i dont really know how or what to do when i like a girl, or when i am interested in more than one girl, like when i'm like 'going fishing' i guess. Thanks man!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for the comment and you totally inspired me with my next blog post! Flirting is a tough one, something i struggle with too. Flirting is a natural thing and something I would not beat yourself up for. I would just watch yourself when you are around a girl you like. If you feel like you are over doing it, back off. Instead of talking about yourself, ask about the girl...focus on her. If the girl is still brushing you off, then man...let her go...there are more gals out there for you that will appreciate you paying attention to them. Be cool, chill and pay attention and focus on them. Hope this helps, let me know if you got any other questions :)
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