Problems in relationships are the worst. I have encountered many problems through out my relationships and they are no fun. When you first start dating, things are so wonderful. You are so "head over heals" for each other and things are just wonderful. Then all of sudden, while things are going great...some stupid little thing is said and starts the "first" argument. Usually the first one is not a big deal but it causes stress between the new couple. This can flare true problems or if handled correctly, nothing will come of it. So the first argument is out of the way and you learn of buttons not to press. These buttons you have to leave along! No matter what is going on with your relationship...those buttons are relationship suicide!
Say you had a really bad day, and for some reason when you meet up with your gal, she has it out for you. You become mad at her...so you start pressing buttons because you want to get even. Push the line too far and you will only cause pain..part of you feels so good that you shut her down but then reality sets in and you realize what you have done! Is it to late to fix it? No matter what is going through your life, those buttons are not worth the pain you will cause the other person. Would you want this pain brought upon you? When you find those buttons, leave along and forget about them...it is worth it in the long run.
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